kissingthesea-advice

i think that you guys shouldn’t go out yet, not until you both feel comfortable around each other. just get to know him better, its like your going out but you haven’t labelled anything so you guys can just get to know each other without the pressure of a relationship :)

you need to make sure he gets his priorities straight, because you don’t want to be getting involved with him if he already has a thing with someone else because you will just get your heart broken. if he likes you then he will probably change his mind with the other girl he has a thing with, i am so sorry i haven’t replied i have been so busy for the past few weeks and have completely forgotten about the advice blog, i thought jess was on as well, hope this helps x

you do need to talk to a therapist about what is going on in your head, and how you are feeling. therapists don’t mean you a crazy, they are great people talk to if you find the right one. therapists have helped my sister a lot with getting through her highschool years and i do recommend you see one so you get the right answers and the proper advice. your parents will understand but they will ask you about it, just tell them you really want someone to talk about things with xo

they shouldn’t be acting like that, just ignore it, or tell them that its hurting your feelings because you care about him and your friends. maybe try and make plans with the girls so they know you are trying to make an effort but that is very bitchy of them

i understand, don’t try waiting for him to text you first because you will just be waiting and waiting haha, but on the occasion he might text you first. maybe talk to him in person about it xo

i think she is faking your friendship completely, even though it was wrong of you to go into her facebook, don’t tell her about it. be friends with people who will actually care about and your time wont be wasted. by what she wrote it sounds as if she is incredibly jealous of you, don’t worry about her its her loss, because she lost a great friend xo 

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don’t get angry at yourself for it. i think you need to tell him how you feel and if he feels the same way he will tell you, and if not its best if you find someone else because he is in a relationship xo

i think what you are doing is great, you get friendly with guys and they like that. i think you just need to wait until one of the boys starts to get feelings for you, don’t go looking for a relationship, one will come to you :)

you should try and make conversation with him in person so he knows you will actually talk to him in person not over social networking sites. just talk about school, if he goes to your school x